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Mother of the Bride or Groom Dresses

January 18, 2024

Congratulations! You’re going to be the Mother of the Bride or Groom. That is such an exciting part of life as a mother. My goal here is to help you create a beautiful, stylish ensemble for the big day so that you feel radiant, comfortable and confident on this milestone day.

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Since I originally created this blog post both of my adult children have gotten married. So I’ve been the mother of the groom and then the mother of the bride. The two roles feel a little different, but it’s oh so special to see your child get married…regardless of what side of the aisle you’re sitting on.

Post last updated on 1/18/24 Originally published in 2018.

Mother of the Groom - Son's Engagement
My son and daughter-in-law got engaged on the coast of Croatia.

Be a Gracious Mother of the Bride/Groom

You might be prepared for me to advise you with a few traditional social cues, like 1) don’t upstage the bride, 2) never wear white, 3) the mother of the bride chooses her dress first and 4) then the mother of the groom gets to find her dress. But NO. Turns out those rules have gone out of vogue just like most other fashion rules our culture once practiced.

But I do have a few gracious tips for the Mother of the Bride and the Mother of the Groom:

  • Consult with the bride first before even looking at dresses. Ask if she has any ideas about how she’d like for the parents to dress. This is her day, and you’ll be happier in the long run if you dress in a way that fits in with her vision of that special occasion.
  • Be gracious toward the other mother in all matters concerning dress. Remember, your children are beginning a family, and both you and the other set of parents want to be a part of it. This is a time to build bridges, extend hands of friendship, create an atmosphere of cooperation and demonstrate godliness. It’s definitely not a time to dig in heels or one-up.
Abigail and Andrew
My daughter and son-in-law became engaged on the coast on Oregon.
  • Consider the ceremony theme, venue, colors and level of formality the couple has chosen. This probably goes without saying, but we moms know that as our children age and reach the milestones we’ve dreamed for years of experiencing with them, sometimes we have to adjust our expectations and visions. Maybe you always envisioned walking down the aisle of a church in a formal gown to watch your child marry… but they’ve decided on a beach wedding instead. You’re probably going to have to start dreaming of you in a different dress! Has the couple chosen an outdoor wedding, ethnic ceremony, morning wedding, small intimate affair, large cathedral ceremony, black-tie event? Plan accordingly.
  • Mother of the Bride, reach out to the Mother of the Groom about clothing early in the planning process. True, there supposedly are no hard, fast rules about this any longer. But the Mother of the Groom may be waiting on your go-ahead. So touch base with her at least. Maybe invite her to lunch or coffee and set a gracious tone for your relationship.
Etiquette Tips for the Mother of the Bride
Me with my beautiful daughter Abigail at her wedding. I chose my dress (similar option and another by the same designer) to compliment hers and flatter me.
  • Mother of the Bride, once you secure your dress let the Mother of the Groom know, giving the her ample opportunity to select her dress if she’s waiting on you. Note, according to modern etiquette she doesn’t have to wait, but she may graciously want to wait for you to select your attire first. So don’t make her wait too long.
  • Mother of the Bride, don’t place unreasonable restrictions on the Mother of the Groom. You may have very different body types and styles. The mothers of my daughter-in-law and son-in-law wore very different styles from mine. In fact, one of them wore black because that’s what she wears 90% of the time and she feels most like herself in that shade. They both looked stunning. And we were in very few photographs together, so it really didn’t make sense for us to try to coordinate. So don’t tell the MOG what color or length of dress she must wear. Instead, at the very most suggest a few shades she might want to choose from and give some flexibility in the length.  David’s Bridal offers some great tips about colors that coordinate well together, and especially how to coordinate with the wedding colors in general. Grace, ladies, lots of grace.
Style and Etiquette Tips for the Mother of the Groom
my husband James, my daughter-in-law Stephanie, my son Daniel and myself on their wedding day in October 2019
  • Don’t outshine anyone, but do shine. As my wedding photographer friend Hannah Whaley pointed out, you’re not likely to upstage the bride even if you try. She’s probably 20-something…and you’re not! (Oh, boy…) But honestly, this isn’t the day to try to outshine anyone. Just shine! Choose a dress that makes you look and feel beautiful. It’s a day of celebration, and you want to look your best without drawing undue attention to yourself. So yes, stay away from ostentatious accessories, flirtatious cuts, over-the-top designs and attention grabbing colors or prints. But do choose clothing that conveys your personal style on an elegant and celebratory note.
  • Mother of the Groom, you don’t have to defer to the Mother of the Bride, but it sure would be gracious of you if you did. You gals know, I’m all about grace. And what better time to show a little. Ask the MOB what color, style and length of dress she plans to wear. Offer to wait a little while before choosing your dress if time allows. Just stay in touch so there are no surprises. One MOB told me a story about how her then future son-in-law had seen her looking at dresses on line and sent his own mom some of the links she had sent her daughter to look at. In the end, the two women ended up in the exact same dress! Oops! Communication fail! But in the end, grace prevailed.
  • If possible, have a backup dress on hand on the big day. Accidents happen. I’ve heard stories! The second dress doesn’t have to be another expensive one, just something that you could feel pretty in if there’s an oops. A dress already hanging in your closet or one your dear friend wore that also fits you…either would make you feel a little more secure on a day filled with nerves.
My Mother and Father on my Daughter's Wedding Day
my mother and father as the grandmother and grandfather of the bride on Abby’s big day // mother’s dress in rose or in petite sizes or in navy and plus sizes (another similar option in petites)

Where to Shop and How

I received all sorts of great advice about where to shop for MOB and MOG dresses. The favorites were definitely Nordstrom, Dillards, Macy’s and Adrianna Papell’s online store. I also found beautiful dresses in a full range of prices at Saks Fifth Avenue. I’ve given you links directly to the department stores’ wedding or Mother of the Bride shops. I also found a beautiful dress at Teri Jon, but ended up returning it when I found the Adrianna Papell dress I wore from Dillards.

Family at Abby's Wedding

I did have readers who said they shopped at bridal stores such as David’s Bridal and had great luck. If nothing else, you might want to check their website out for some good tips. I also learned, however, that many moms find the sizes at bridal shops to be quite different from the clothing they’re used to buying. You’ll probably need to size up significantly at a bridal shop. Oh, and keep in mind that many bridal shops only have dresses in mid-range sizes, 10-16, for you to try on. So if you are very petite or small you will struggle to get a real feel for how you’d look in your correct size. Maybe that’s why so many women prefer to shop online where they can order their selections and try them on at home.

Style and Etiquette Tips for the Mother of the Groom
The Dessy dress I wore to my son’s wedding in 2019 is no longer available, but here are other Dessy collection dresses.

Finally, several readers and friends did say that they had shopped successfully from JJ’s House, an online store that ships from overseas. These ladies said they bought beautiful, well-fitted dresses from JJ’s and were very happy with their experience. But I have to also note that I received an equal number of reports saying they didn’t have good luck with this vendor. I have a feeling that the problem lies with taking accurate measurements. That’s how you order your gown on JJ’s. Your finished product is based completely on the measurements you have sent. And ladies, the truth is most of us don’t have a lot of experience taking our measurements. So I’m betting that a lot of the time women are sending in faulty ones.

But also, you need to know that many of these overseas manufacturers do not accept returns. And they can’t just send you another dress quickly if the one you ordered and received doesn’t work. So if you do choose to order from JJ’s – and they do have some lovely, unique dresses – you’ll want to order early enough to buy something else if necessary.

Bride and Her Attendants and Mother

TIP —> Even if you’re not already on Pinterest, you need to build a Pinterest board for MOB/MOG dresses. This is a great way to keep track of all you’re looking at on the web. It’s a way to compare features you like and details you appreciate. And, if you pin your findings correctly, your pins should take you right back to where you found the dresses so you can order them. You can pin my images in this blog post, too!

By the way, many of my MOB and MOG friends say they preferred shopping for their dress online. It gave them the opportunity to try the dresses on at home, compare them to each other, ask for feedback from their husband or daughter and think about their purchase…before returning if necessary. And many of our favorite stores provide free shipping and free returns for items in this price range.

What Brands are Popular

Just starting the process of looking for a MOB or MOG dress can be daunting. Where do you even begin? And what brands are reliable and well-made? I absolutely loved wearing my Adrianna Papell dress for my daughter’s wedding. But my Dessy Collection dress felt just as stunning and beautiful. I heard rave reviews for Tadashi Shoji, Vince Camuto, JS Collections and Alex Evenings. My mother’s dress for Abigail’s wedding was by Ignite Evenings.

Mother and Parker at Abby's Wedding
my nephew Parker, my dad Jerry and my mom Louise at Abigail’s wedding // mother’s dress in rose or in petite sizes or in navy and plus sizes (another similar option in petites)

I also personally gravitate to Mac Duggal, Kay Unger and Teri Jon by Ricki Freeman, but those three are a little more pricey. You can definitely find them on sale occasionally though.

But if you’re looking for something less formal, you might also find a dress among Calvin Klein, Antonio Melani and Maggy London. I also had a reader who said she loved her Vera Wang for Kohl’s dress. So don’t be forget to try clothing stores that aren’t necessarily the go-to for formal wear, especially if your venue is more casual.

When You Shop

Consider taking a trusted friend, sister, mother or daughter with you. Learn a lesson from those brides on Say “Yes” to the Dress though. Don’t take someone who will derail your shopping trip. Choose a shopping partner who has no agenda except to help you find the dress you love and look beautiful in.

Be sure to take along or wear the proper shapewear, shoes and bra. Yes, you may get different shoes after you buy the dress, but you’ll get a better feel for the dress if you at least wear the size heels you prefer to wear when trying dresses on.

All that said, I did purchase both of my dresses online and much preferred the shopping experience that afforded me. You can try the gown on several times over a few days rather than once for a few minutes.

yes to the Dress
Abigail and I on the day she said, “yes!” to the dress

So Let’s Shop!

Remember, every woman’s shopping experience is going to be different because we’re all shopping for a different wedding. Focus on what you need to feel special and beautiful at your child’s wedding. Don’t compare to your friend who is shopping for a different venue or formality level.

I’ve found dresses for three different broad categories:

  • Semi-formal – this includes afternoon church weddings, some venue weddings, even evening weddings where you simply prefer a short dress to a long one
  • Non-traditional or less formal – this includes venue weddings such as beaches, resorts, mountain venues, backyard gardens, etc. This category is wide open really.
  • Formal – this includes evening weddings at hotels, resorts and churches.

But keep in mind, these are broad categories. I’m not suggesting that all the dresses in any one category would necessarily work for your wedding style, venue or personal taste. In fact, I’ve tried to offer a very wide assortment of choices as well. I just wanted to give you a sampling of what is out there.

I will say, though, that these are all dresses I like. I wouldn’t mind wearing any of them.

Abigail and Andrew
Abigail and her husband Andrew

Color Trends: I suggest you wear a color you enjoy wearing, perhaps one that will coordinate with the bride’s chosen wedding colors, but not necessarily. That said, gold, blush, champagne and ivory are really trending for mother of the bride dresses right now. Those soft shades look beautiful in photos alongside the bride.

Shop for short, formal dresses:

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I love the appliqued lace on these elegant, but shorter length dresses. If you click through the links on any of the dresses I’m showing you’re likely to find that they come in other colors as well.

black 3/4 sleeve // seafoam lace // navy off the shoulder

These three dresses have a little more sparkle. Three-quarter length sleeves are usually a safe and elegant option for most women. But really, more of us than we think can wear short sleeves or even go sleeveless. So don’t rule those dresses out until you try them.

blue dress // lilac dress // green dress

Each of these dresses feature lace throughout. But they’re still simple and elegant.

lavender dress // silver dress // blush dress

Of course you want to stay true to your personal style, even on this special day. So if lace or beading are not your thing, choose a dress that is more classy and understated.

black // rose // navy

Shop for Outdoor/Nontraditional Wedding MOB Dresses:

These are definitely among the least formal dresses I’ve chosen to show you. But I frequently hear from women who are looking for simple but elegant dresses that will help them on their child’s big day, while being wearable for special occasions later. Any of these would be perfectly beautiful for the simple ceremony and reception.

pink // brown // daisy

These floral dresses would be beautiful at a simple indoor wedding or one held in a garden or other outdoor venue. And I asked Hannah (my wedding photographer friend) if florals were okay for photographs, and she said absolutely yes. I trust her. Hannah takes beautiful wedding photos. Maybe that’s why I wore a floral myself!

plum // black and cream belted // blue and green

These dresses are still elegant and would be great for a church wedding, too. But I loved the idea of wearing one of these lace applique dresses to an outdoor wedding, say at a hotel or garden.

nude belted // navy // blush and silver

To me, these three dresses just look like they belong in the beautiful outdoors. Can’t you see wearing any of these to a formal garden or beach wedding?

pink // blue lavender // blue combo

So in this broad category I’m showing you everything from nice “church dresses” to these long floral gowns. These dresses are a great choice for the Mother of the Bride or Mother of the Groom who has been asked to get a long dress, but still wants something a little “out of the box” for a less traditional wedding. Yes, you can wear long, beaded dresses to morning and afternoon weddings. But I think these long floral dresses are better choices for those times of day than some of the beaded ones you’ll see in the next category. (I feel like I’m being about as clear as mud at this point! I hope I’m making sense.)

navy, pink, and orange // white multi // black multi

Shop for Formal/Semi-formal Full Length Gowns:

These are gowns that I would reserve for evening weddings or more formal daytime weddings. They feature lace and embroidery or appliques that look very formal.

navy // light blue // mauve

I can appreciate the simple lines of these dresses.

teal // blush // black

With the next set of dresses we’re moving into more sequins and beading. These are truly show stoppers.

light blue // blush/gold // silver belted

The dresses below are even more formal, full of beading and sequins.

silver // navy // green

And we’ll wrap it up with one more set of sequined and beaded gowns. Aren’t these dazzling? And the dresses on the left and right will look so beautiful in photos alongside the bride.

nude // grey // black

Honestly, there are so many gorgeous dresses out there. I think that’s why it can seem overwhelming. But the ultimate goal is simply to choose a dress that makes you feel comfortable and pretty. Then enjoy wearing it!

Oh, almost forgot! Don’t forget to allow time for alterations if needed. You’ll have to have them professionally done. Nordstrom does alterations for dresses that are bought there. Allow a month for alterations.

Final Touches

I want to tie a bow on this post by mentioning shoes, accessories and day-of details briefly.

You’ll want to choose comfortable shoes you can spend long hours in. You’re going to be on your feet, potentially for hours and hours. And you definitely want to break your shoes in a little around the house instead of trying to wear them for the first time on that special day. Of course, you can always put an extra pair of low-heeled, comfortable shoes in a bag and pull them out for the reception, especially if you’re wearing a long dress that will pretty much conceal them.

Mother of the Bride Attire
shoes not available // similar

Keep jewelry to a minimum. Let the dress carry the day, and simply add beautiful, but simple earrings or more subtle earrings and a stunning choker. And a bracelet might be a nice touch if you enjoy wearing them. If you want to wear a necklace make sure it doesn’t take away from the neckline of the dress. You also might consider a few pretty pins for your hair if you’re getting an up-do.

Mother of the Bride Attire

If you need to invest in good shapewear, do so. You don’t want to be uncomfortably confined, but you also don’t want to have lines or bulges. So choose undergarments with medium to light control if possible.

You may need a pretty wrap to wear around your shoulders if the wedding is in early spring, late fall or winter. I love this pretty white faux fur capelet. I wore a similar one to my son’s October wedding.

Style and Etiquette Tips for the Mother of the Groom
faux fur capelet

Finally, go ahead and make yourself an appointment to have you hair and makeup done for the wedding if it can fit in your budget. Make sure the person doing your makeup is experienced working with more mature skin, and ask to have your makeup done for the camera, but also with a natural appeal. This is not the day to suddenly look like a different woman.

Mother of the Bride Attire

Then again, if you don’t usually wear much makeup don’t be afraid of being a little more made up on this day. When the pictures come back, you’ll be glad you had on more. You also might want to have your makeup artist and hairstylist do a run through with you several weeks before the wedding so that you’re not worried about the potential results.

blue stud earrings // hair comb // pearl bracelet // metallic wrap // black clutch // silver heels // crystal drop earrings // Swarovski gold necklace // pearl drop earrings // gold crystal pendant necklace // gold heels // Mignonne Gavigan poppy earrings // gold bag // black pumps // white sheer wrap

Enjoy the Day

Look, the whole reason you need to read an article like this is so that you can plan ahead, purchase everything you need and then forget about it. It’s a big day, whether your child is the bride or the groom. So plan your attire well ahead of time so that you are confident going into the day. Then get dressed and turn your attention toward your children, family and friends. Enjoy! And congratulations, mama. You made it to a very special day indeed.

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You also might want to check out my other Mother of the Bride/Mother of the Groom post here. This post was written after my son’s wedding, reflecting my own experience as a Mother of the Groom.

Check out this post.

And I have another post in which I shared tips for selecting your Mother of the Bride Dress following my daughter’s wedding. Check it out HERE.

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Blessed for My Day

Weddings are occasions to celebrate love. But any family event of this magnitude can also stir up harsh words, criticisms, hurt feelings and resentments. Maybe this would be a good time to memorize and meditate on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. 

Throughout the planning of your child’s wedding as well as on that special day, you’ll want to be at your best. I’ve found that if I spend time in the morning meditating on God’s Word, I’m more prepared to handle whatever that day may bring. On the day of my daughter’s wedding I had to be at a hair appointment at 7 a.m. It was tempting to skip that quiet time. But because I wanted to be full of God’s Word going into that day, I took the time to meditate on this familiar passage.

“Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

xoxo, Kay
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28 thoughts on “Mother of the Bride or Groom Dresses

  1. I am trying to help my sister in law find a mother of the groom dress. She lives in a small town with no stores that would carry dresses plus she is still recovering from a painful hip surgery that went bad so she isn’t going to be able to get to a store. I’ll have to order online. She’s also a plus sized woman. I was thinking of a pant suit? She needs comfortable and with a pant suit she could wear more comfortable shoes. She’s also self conscious about her size. Any suggestions? Thank you!

    1. Hi Kathy, Yes, I do think a pant suit would be lovely. I found these two more tailored suits that she could even wear later at Dillard’s:

      I think with both of those you have to buy the blouse/top separately. I’m pretty sure the suits just consist of the pants and jacket.

      But if she’s comfortable with something more dressy, then I love these options: – an embellished 3-piece suit, flowy and gorgeous – lacey and available in taupe or navy, 3 – piece – a combination of chiffon and lace, also 3-piece

      I provided links to plus size suits. Really shopping on line is so easy and worth it to me. Especially in your sister-in-law’s situation. These stores are all very good with returns, so you could order several and send back the ones not chosen. Hope that helps!

        1. I also need to save this post as I have two grown sons who will hopefully one day get married. I loved the dress you featured on the front page of the blog. So beautiful!

  2. This excellent Kay. . If you are in your late 40’s or 50’s those social etiquette and correctness little things are very much in place. I was the MOG last year, the one thing I forgot to check on was attire for the Bridal luncheon. I had a nice dress and shoes on, but everyone in the party had the same pair of shoes on for pictures. Oh well, I at least enjoyed the Swan House lunch. I bought three Adrianna Papell dresses online. Much more comfortable than the store.

    1. Yeah, and I think the social etiquette rules are more in effect in the South, too. But I think it’s important for women to realize that not everyone is following those rules, so we do have to give lots of grace. It was Michelle that pointed out to me the need for the MOB especially to be gracious toward the MOG. But I guess that really goes both ways. You’re the one who really gave me the idea for this post, so thanks for that! It was fun to do. And one of these days I really will get to be that MOG!

  3. Whew! That was a marvelous post. Carmen Marc Valvo midi dress was my favorite and would look beautiful on you. My advice would be to wear a stunning hat with a wide brim especially if you will be outdoors. Even in a church it wouldn’t matter. Wear the hat for sure because it will set you apart and make a statement. After all you will be the MOG. LOL My son was married 12 years ago here in San Diego outside. Good job on all your work on this post.

    1. Thanks Aimee, It was a lot of work. But it was also really fun and interesting. I love the idea of a wide brimmed hat for an outside wedding. Great tip!

  4. Great tips!!! I was MOG – wish I had read this before the Big Day! But thankfully, all is well and I loved every moment! My son’s bride to be then, wanted to go dress shopping with me & even offered to purchase my dress! How did I know it was the one (although if alone, I don’t think I would have chosen it)? She cried!!!!! Awww yeah! How could I resist? Later, my son even surprised me by walking me down the isle to seat me himself! What a glorious day! Memories that will last a life time!

    1. Ahh, that’s just wonderful Mary! I’m glad you had such a wonderful experience. How precious. Thanks so much for reading and sharing your experience. Blessings!

    2. Hi Mary, I read your post about your son’s wedding. I love the slide show. And your dress is lovely. You looked beautiful. I know it was a wonderful day. Congratulations! I tried to leave a comment on your blog, but wasn’t able to (my fault for not remembering my WordPress password), so I hoped you might read this one. Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful day with your readers. What a blessing!

  5. I would love for your to help me find a mother of the groom dress. It is February 29, 2020 in Wyoming. As soon as I find out her colors I think I can look and shop better! Is that what you think, too?

  6. I know this post is old, but I am in love with one of the dresses. How do I find where to buy one like it now?

    1. Hmm. Which one is it? I’ll see what I can do. I updated the shopping widgets about a month ago, but the dresses in the photos are from two years ago.

  7. I don’t understand why you don’t ave any links for the all the dresses on your site. If someone sees something they like they have no way of finding it.

    1. Hi Mary. I did have links on the post for the dresses, but the post you’re reading is two years old. So those links no longer worked and I removed them. I do try to keep the shopping widgets up to date but it’s been a while since I’ve checked those.

  8. Hello Kay,
    Thank you for this wonderful reference. I will MOG in November 2021. It is the end of May 2021 now and I am just beginning my search but waiting on news from the bride about her wishes for style and colors. I have been on line but I’m mostly seeing spring color choices and I’m having a hard time picturing myself in fall colors. I have white hair ,blunt cut, shoulder length . and I’m wondering what your suggestion would be for color choices for a MOG dress .
    Also my hair is very fine and thin on the crown and hard to get lift- what do you think of hair pieces or extensions? I don’t want to look conspicuous ; just graceful .

    1. Hi Beth. I wore green to my son’s October wedding. Did you see that post, by the way? It’s here And you can definitely still wear softer colors if you’d prefer. Light blue is pretty any time. As far as your hair goes, I’d just see your stylist or someone who does extensions or hair pieces. Get a consultation and try them out now if you’re game. I wouldn’t do anything that drastic right before the big day without trying it out earlier. So now is the time to give it a try. Or you may just ask your hairdresser to style your hair for you that day. She can probably get more lift than you can. I know my hairdresser can. Again I’d do a test run well ahead of time and take photos so that she remembers what to do on the day. And if you’re going to be in a different city, maybe still look into having your hair styled that day by a professional. Just work on taking out the guesswork as much as possible. Thanks for dropping in. And many blessings for the big day!

  9. These suggestions are great however, unless I missed it, you didn’t really address the problem of finding a dress for the Petite MOG. There’s very limited selection, most are all black or off the shoulder which makes e short woman look wide. Buying from an overseas company is risky because they match the measurements but not the shoulder to chest or waist to hip rise.

  10. Oh Kay your MOB and MOG outfits were Beautiful and what Lovely advice you gave . I loved the Blog even though it won’t be something I need to worry about. What a Beautiful Family you all are . Your mum and dad so so sweet and your mums outfit , well she looked stunning , what a pretty face she has . Abigail looked gorgeous and your son so smart too . I loved the BFMD at the end of the 2nd part about ‘Love’ Scripture, its always been ine of my favourites ❤️Xx

    1. Ahh, thanks so much, Kym. They were memorable, beautiful days. And I have indeed been blessed with a beautiful and dear family.

  11. You look fabulous in both dresses! I wish I could have shopped online, but my son’s announcement in early July that the wedding to his Japanese bride would be on September 17 threw me into a tizzy of wedding planning. The bride let me know by email that she wanted me to plan the wedding, so I had no Bridzilla issues. But having to plan everything, from invitations to catering/cake, flowers and setup for a garden wedding in our small city garden was exhausting. My son wanted to wear his tuxedo, so I asked him if he wanted a black tie wedding. Nope. His bride wanted a beautiful traditional white dress. We expected about 40 guests, which was as many as we could accommodate in our small venue. I knew that most people would dress like they were going to a barbecue (we live in Portland, OR). I was searching for a dress until the end of August, and I kept telling everyone “something with 3/4 sleeves (I’m 78), solid color, no prints, especially no floral prints. Guess what I ended up with: a Johnny Was floral print on a cerise ground, floor length with 3/4 sleeves, fitted not flowy, and ON SALE! The beautiful bride was the star of the show, but I looked fabulous, too. Wish I could send you a photo.

  12. Great article Kay! Perfect timing for me!! Fall wedding coming up this year! A couple questions…if the bride’s wedding dress is more whimsical and no beading, does the mob dress have to be on the plainer side…no sequins or sparkle? Also, would you give any suggestions for mob dresses for bridal luncheons in restaurants? LOVE your taste in clothes!! I would appreciate any input!